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Etiquette of Setting Life Goals
Definition of a Goal
• A Goal is different than a Wish
• A Wish is something you are dreaming of, and could not be
achieved
• A Goal is something you want to achieve, and you can plan
for
• A Goal is voice of your internal human need
• A Goal is when working on what you need, not only to want
what you have
• A Goal is when your internal abilities matches the
external capabilities
• A Goal is human need to step forward
• When analyzing your objectives into tips and bits, so it
turns to be a number of Goals
• A Goal is a positive mental status and a psychological
phenomena to perseverance to continuity
What are Types of Goals?
1. Personal Individual Goal
• It is what will make you self
satisfaction when achieved
• It is your human internal self need
• It is the spiritual and moral human internal voice
• Sometimes it is against the will of all people
around
• It is how you want to BE
2. Career Goal
• It is your professional business
vision
• It is your self business career development
• It is your prestige among society
• It is where you generate money to earn your living
• It is where you consume your energy for partial
regular achievement
• It is where you find your self daily or on regular
basics
3. Physical Goal
• It is the shape you want to see
your self like
• It is the self control on hunger and thirst
instinct
• It is your sports and physical training regime
• It is your clothes and attire
• It is your self and personal grooming
• It is your human personal image, in the eyes of
others
• It is your body complexion and new look need
• It is your features and body language signals
4. Educational Goal
• It is your self mental
development
• It is what you learn more, to better your self
• It is the Will for self knowledge increase
• It is how to over come self ignorance
• It is how to achieve self confident
• It is the passage to know “ To Do or not To Do”
5. Family Domestic Goal
• It is your marital status
• It is seeking life security and stability
• It is satisfaction of the sexual instinct
• It is kids and life continuity
• It is home and fulfilling others needs
• It is group satisfaction not only self one
• It is dreaming into others not only your self
• It is enjoying seeing others achieving, what you
are not able to do nor achieve
6. Materialistic Goal
• It is your home, car, bank
account and monthly income
• It is tools for life facilitation and security
• It is the reserve to be able to help others
• It is what you have, to help others in achieving
their goals
• It is a mean for living a luxurious life
• It is how to live without being in debt
• It is what you use in educational and self
development
• It is what helps in setting and achieving more
than a goal
• It is how to manage the capabilities with life
needs
7. Health Goal
• It is self and hygienic care as
not to be exhausted
• It is how to save your self from sickness
• It is how to be self dependent and not an
independent
• It is how to live with pride, dignity and save
your humanity
• It is your ability to work and achieve
• It is your tool to keep a healthy mental status
• It is how to overcome stress
• It is how to eat, sleep, work, learn, relax etc
• It is your life action plan
• It is the energizer to live and not to survive
• It is how to live without pains or make pains to a
minimum
8. Life Goal
• It is the answer of all the WH
Questions of your own believes, in the reason of
your living
• It is how you worked out on creating your human
print, to print it out to humanity
• It is the proverb you will leave to others, to
continue living after you leave
• It is how to capsulate your life experience and
philosophy to make it for others easy to use
• It is your added value from you to humanity
If you are able to understand all the above
consequently you will be able to set your goals.
Setting your Goals needs the following:
• To want what you have
• Know what you need
• Be aware of your potentiality
• Awareness of your weaknesses
• Accept your weakness
• Know how to develop or better some weaknesses
• Mix and match between you abilities and external
capabilities
• Priorities your goals
• Design action plans
• Be ready with contingency plans
• Believe that trial is experience
• Learn from your success and failure
• Get to know that no harm in losing a battle or
millions of battles as WAR is still on
• Think of who can help you in achieving your goal
• List your needs to achieve your goals
• Elicit the difficulties in achieving your goals, and
prepare for solutions
• Believe in your self that you are an achiever
• If there is a Will there will be a Way
Ghada Salah Gomaa
Business Etiquette & Protocol Consultant
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